Mistress Natalie Kinky with the slave


Since I became a Pro Dom at the age of 18, BDSM has powerfully influenced my life. I’ve spent 25 years in this unique lifestyle, growing, learning, refining my craft, nurturing amazing relationships, cultivating a sophisticated palate, and evolving into the dominant connoisseur I am today. 

Growing up experiencing the challenges and societal scrutiny of childhood obesity motivated me, later in life, to explore many modalities of fitness, functional medicine and holistic wellbeing. Simultaneously my career and exploration in BDSM grew. Over time I began to draw distinct parallels between BDSM and its positive holistic effects; I started seeing it as the wonderful life hack it was.

This realization added a new perspective to my career and an even deeper connection between my personal and professional life. After 25 years I have never become bored or complacent. I always strive to expand my expertise and awareness in life and kink, guru and student simultaneously.

A Bit of My History:
I started in the scene in 1993 at a role-play house called Village Fantasies where I was exposed to the fetish world through elaborate role-play scenarios and fetish play. The whimsical escapism and kink were a perfect mix, I loved it. Taking my subs through scenes of power exchange was exhilarating and my passion for it has not dwindled over the years. Today, I am still open to accepting scripts understanding I can expand upon the tenets,  making the scene my very own.

I was only 18 when I wore a strap-on for the first time. We didn’t have an actual harness but one of my colleagues showed me a “technique” of stuffing the dildo into my jeans while keeping the button closed and zipper open to hold the dildo in place.  Later I got crafty and fashioned a harness out of rope, until I discovered Purple Passion (a fetish store) and bought my first ever proper harness. Role reversal, power exchange and forcing non-binary sexuality still makes sissy/slut training and feminization a great passion of mine.

I left Village Fantasies to work at EastSide Dungeon run by Ms. Nikki, where my BDSM experience flourished. She ran a traditional dungeon outfitted with all the ropes, corporal tools and bondage equipment. One of her locations had a realistic medical area. This was especially fascinating to me. My obsession with all things medical started when I was very young. I thought I wanted to be a doctor, but after several years of working in a doctors office during high school I realized I had no interest in navigating the red tape of the medical industry, nonetheless my medical fetish continued. BDSM allowed me to explore my medical interests and desires in the most fun way.

My current studio has an extensively equipped medical area that I love to play in. I have acquired quite an arsenal of medical gear, and my skills are stellar. The doctor is always in!

At 30 I left Ms. Nikki’s to open my own private studio where I still operate today. It was a huge risk and enormous challenge, one I am so grateful I took. This major life shift prompted me to get serious about my health.  I began working with personal trainers, and I spent a tremendous amount of time researching health and fitness which became like a second job. My exploration prompted me to go back to school to become a certified life coach, then again to earn a NASM personal training certification, and most recently to go to India for my Yoga Alliance training certification. Taking advantage of these skills, I developed my KinkyCoaching™ and BDSM Therapy programs.

At 43 I am more passionate about BDSM than ever. I strive to live out the Holy Trinity of HOT KINK, HAUTE CUISINE AND HIGH CULTURE while maintaining HOLISTIC HEALTH.